I took a trade to buy BTC, sent the money and the seller didn´t appear to have even seen the message sent to him/her by bisq to confirm reception of money. Trade time completed and I opened support ticket. I had to travel and asked arbitrator if possible to wait until I was back. When I came back had no response from arbitrator and had received the money back. I wrote to arbitrator again and I still have no answer from arbitrator a week after coming back. Deposit in locked funds.
cmd+o is used to open a dispute, I actually might have been wrong, you might not be able to close the dispute on your own. Maybe only arbitrator can do that.
I guess we will just have to wait for keo to respond.
No, there really isn’t any other party that can get involved between traders. This is due to a design, but with some off chain trading it might be possible in future when the DAO gets released.
You should send @keo a PM so he sees it when he comes back.
You can also send him an email at stibor@protonmail.com