I don’t see this trade in my dispute list, thus I cannot do anything. If there is no deposit tx published then only the fees left the wallet and that is not a big sum. I think you should open a ticket on GitHub and you will probably be reimbursed for the fee by Chris. If the buyer sent fiat you should send it back. You might have to resync your wallet by deleting the SPV-file under Settings-Network Info.
i might have the same problem. i got a message saying something like “lost connection to taker” and now the trade is stuck, waiting for blockchain confirmation. should i open a dispute?
did you delete the SPV file or not ?
(warning: be aware that, if your wallet is old, deleting the SPV file make take several hours and use a lot of CPU)
I assume deposit never left your wallet then. Does it show up in reserved balance in Bisq?
If you want, you can withdraw your coins with a cmd+e if regular way doesn’t work.
Then you can contact cbeams for your lost trading fees.