It’s not clear if you are the taker. I guess you are.
Then your wallet is corrupted.
Do you have funds locked? If you do, don’t try to take more offers as your wallet is corrupted.
You need to try a spv resync and if that doesn’t work (funds are still displayed as locked) re-import the seed.
I think the best is to talk with your mediator and try to solve it with them. You could also come to Keybase to share private info, is difficult to give advice without knowing the exact issue you’re having.
I don’t think that your Tor address and payment accounts has been banned, it should be giving more explicit errors.